Gifted · 2e · ADHD coaching, in English or Dutch
I know that craving for autonomy. For challenge. For impact. That feeling of a life not fully alive. I built a different life for myself, with help, and my mission is to help others find flow and joy too.
For when people see your potential, and you mostly feel the struggle.
Coaching
Coaching that understands the depth of gifted and 2e life, makes room for the intensity, and turns goals and values into daily steps. I'm gifted and 2e myself, so I know this life from the inside.
How we work
Practical
For parents
A 6-week online coaching sprint for parents of gifted and 2e children.
It turns waiting into action and puts you back in control. Available in English or Dutch.
More about MOMENTUM →What clients say
“In short: the methods didn’t just ‘work’. They permanently changed my mindset.”
“Marijn is an expert in both the theoretical and the practical side of giftedness. What sets him apart is his ability to work with each child as a unique case who therefore needs a unique approach. His knowledge, experience and creativity help him quickly analyze the situation and come up with practical steps and ideas.”
“Enjoying learning again: we hadn’t seen that in a long time. We see him grow every day.”
Marijn Bergsma Founder, BrightPath
About Marijn
I found out later in life. First about giftedness, and later about ADHD when I realized that giftedness alone didn't explain my struggles, particularly with executive functions and my coping strategies.
I first started working with my kids, who are similar to their dad. After a burnout it became clear that I wasn't living the professional life I was meant to be in. I knew what life I wanted, but I was afraid to live it. The courage wasn't there. Therapy and coaching, along with a bias towards action and support from my environment helped me build a life I'm proud of and joyful in.
I see it in others. And it doesn't require a burnout, or a complete overhaul of your life. Understanding yourself and your values, facing the fears that are holding you back. I am most alive and in flow when working with others, those who are ready for more and don't know how or where to begin. Or who to talk to.
For schools
Working at an international school? BrightPath also supports school leaders and staff.
Book a first conversation. Online, near Haarlem, or hybrid.
FAQ
Yes. It's called twice-exceptional, or 2e. The two often hide each other: your intelligence covers for the ADHD, and the ADHD hides how capable you are. That's why many people only see the full picture later in life.
No. Coaching starts with how you think, work and live, not with a label. If a diagnosis or a test would help you, I'll tell you where to start. You decide whether and when.
No. In coaching we work on your goals and values and turn them into daily steps. I don't diagnose or treat. If something needs a psychologist or psychiatrist, I'll say so and help you find the right person.
Yes. I coach in English or Dutch, fully online, in person near Haarlem, or a mix of both. I went to international schools, have lived on five continents and spent time all over the world. I know what it's like to build a life across countries, languages and cultures. Whatever your background, I'll meet you with curiosity and respect for where you come from.
We get to know each other and look at what you want to change. I ask questions, you ask yours. At the end we both know whether we're a good fit. No strings attached.